I am so glad you are here! I am Sarah B. Bondar - Mother, prior law enforcement, prior 911 dispatcher, now lawyer and Founder and Creator of Made4MORE - a brand that was born and transformed through my life experiences, my own journey, my own hard work healing, letting go, and learning to love and be love. However, I am so much more than the labels listed above.
So who am I, really?
Through losing my job, losing myself, losing my health - I lost my identity —- or so I thought… Really, what I was doing… was shedding the things that society told me I was, and laying the foundation for the brickwork of who I am …. truly. The parts of me that no one can take away from me.
I am an empath but don’t always listen to what I read from the room.
I am intuitive but ignore my guy at times.
I am Tenacious but am scared to invest in myself.
I am an INFJ.
I am honest but have difficulty admitting the things I often see right before my eyes.
I am a hippie at heart and an animal lover, but I hate bees, lady bugs, and centipedes.
I am a healer but often put myself last.
I am a helper but keep to myself.
I am careful but also clumsy.
In learning who I am, really… I learned that over 80% of the world is walking around THINKING they know who they are… without actually having any idea. They are what they have been told they are. They are walking around thinking that they are meant to be what society told them. I have developed a deep passion to empower others to discover who they are really, and embrace all parts of their being, both their light and their darkness, harnessing it for their power- their purpose, and teaching them tangible tools to take courageous and bold steps to live the most passionate, purposeful, fulfilled life.
My Mission in life is to show you — that you are Made4MORE than what you have been told, and more than what you could possibly imagine.
I’M DUANE!
TROPHY HUSBAND TO SARAH.
MY JOURNEY TO TRANSFORMATION BEGAN WITH ONE SIMPLE BUT HARD DECISION: TO RECLAIM MY LIFE. IT WAS TIME TO DO LIFE DIFFERENT.
I'VE LEARNED THAT JUST BECAUSE WE FACE ADVERSITY, DOESN'T MEAN WE CAN'T REBUILD EXTRAORDINARY LIVES.
For real though.
I am a Dad, a Marine Corps. Veteran,
a 911 Center Manager, a Sound Healer, and a Man’s Man, here to show you that you too can lead the world from a space of healed masculine energy, safety, and security.
Every one reaches a point in their life - where they are sick and tired of being sick and tired - where they want something more, something different. Where it is time for a change.
They are sick of something Whether it is the same monotony every single day, day in and day out, or the early mornings and late nights, or the constant stress and pull and weight of life. You feel stuck. You are grateful for what you have, but there is this little voice inside that tells you…. “There is more.”
Here’s the cold, hard truth: What got you to where you are right now, will NEVER get you to where you want to be, to who you want to be, to who you are meant to be.
The next level YOU…. the Level 3.0 version of you…. The you that walks in healed masculine energy, as the leader of your family, as the leader of your life…. The kind of man who honors God, Serves your community, Loves your family, holds space for your passions, and fulfills your duty to your calling - Requires a newer commitment to you.
Are you ready to explore what it takes for you to become the 3.0 version of you?
The Couple you see standing before you today is not the couple you would have seen before you two or three years ago. We almost didn’t make it.
I can’t speak for him, but here are 4 things I had to change in order to love my husband better.
My resentment from the past, from missed communications, from misunderstandings;
My story that he didn’t care and would never change;
My lack of responsibility for my feelings, reactions, and emotions;
and my lens. Constantly seeing things through the past, through the way other people interpreted them, and through the areas that needed improvement instead of the good.